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death is such a hard thing to come to terms with

it is hard for the brain to wrap around and accept


death sucks
this all sucks


It is just so hard to comprehend this new experience I have never coped with before
  • Listening to: my noisey fish tank and cockatieal...
  • Reading: recently: watershipdown, the last unicorn
  • Watching: err...what ever is blaring on the TV behind me
  • Playing: playing legend of Zelda:TP for the 3rd time
  • Eating: roasted salted peas (taste better than they sound)
  • Drinking: milk (mmm i LOVE mik)
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~Invaderjade Aug 8, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm so sorry this happened. I've lost two people to cancer and my cousin lost a friend due to a drunk driver.

I think what got to me more was my cousin's friend. I hate people who drive drunk how careless can people be. It happened during the day too it's sad.

So hard to loose love ones. I've lost friends and family also pets too.

Lost is feeling I felt when those things happened. I'm lucky to have my shiba Saya to help me through things.
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:icontheredbandit:
I am so sorry. I am so very sorry. One of my friends committed suicide a few days ago, and it is startling how what was just a slight paranoia can turn into such a huge beast. It just seems like death and danger are everywhere, and you feel powerless to prevent it.

I'm so sorry to hear about Hari, and while I am fully aware, as you are, that healing takes time, please try to heal, and seek out whatever help you need.
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~Leap207 Aug 7, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
It is very sad to loose someone so young, and I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost a dear friend a few years ago, and it's still sad. He was 19 at that time. I have to say that my faith helped me a lot through it all. I know he's in a better place, so I can tell myself not to feel so sad. There is not much anyone can say at a time like this, but I hope you both get plenty of rest and time to go through the grieving process and come to terms with it all. It's certainly not easy, but I wish you guys all the best through these hard times. *hugs*
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:iconlilleahwest:
I have always had that inkling fear of death, and always been a bit paranoid/overly careful (like if I forget to close the front gate and am out there after midnight I am so on edge) but it was never enough to really bother me

this just shook so hard and it stings, it stings because Hari died so young, I was shown first hand how fragile life is, and the hit and run was so close to home and so much hurt happened from an act that took moments to do.


I not only lost my friend and fuzzy family members, I lost part of my inner peace.

and while I am at a state where my days are becoming more and more normal, where I can sit with friends and laugh again, it still creeps in and haunts me...
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~BeadedDragon600 Aug 7, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:( good luck, i hope you recover soon and cope with this depression.
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I am sooooo sorry. I think I misread, please correct my horrible mistake in what I wrote...because I cant take it back. Im sorry again. I got the 'hes' and the 'shes' mixed.
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:iconceltilix-anthro:
Shes not dead, just at the next stage of life. You'll see her again. Those we love are missed in this life when they leave us, and it is hard but... You will see her smile again.
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Mood: Miserable ~Deathnotewolves98 Aug 7, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I know my comment will probably do no good to your healing, and as a random person makes no difference to you, but i just want to let you know i'm hurting very deeply for your tragedy.
good luck.
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Mood: Emotional ~Hieifireshadow Aug 7, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
It's still crazy to me that this happened. I can't even begin to describe how empathetic I feel toward you and your sister. Growing up with your amazing creations has made me really look inside myself and discover amazing things. I can't believe something so terrible could happen to such amazing people. I know I don't really know you, and I had always hoped to meet you. I always thought your sister was amazing in those suits. Always thought your dogs were adorable. Always thought you had one of the most amazing lives ever.

It's really, really hard to accept that all this has happened. But I will always be thinking about you, Lilleah. You, your sister, Hari, and your dogs are all amazing and forever will be.
I wish I had more words.
Lots of love.
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~RavynRaver Aug 7, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Death is a profound concept for those who remain living. It's hard to deal with, especially when you are close to someone. I'm sure with time you will learn to cope, and while coping doesn't fix the issue, at least it gets easier to deal with. If you ever need to talk, just message me. I'm only a note away, hun.
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